I just wanna know if I’m not alone. For context, I’m 20 years old in college, and in a fraternity here. The women are plentiful man, but I get this thing where I will flirt, but avoid escalating it because my brain just tells me I won’t be able to get it up, even if it’s subconsciously. I have zero medical conditions regarding this that I know of. I’m healthy, sleep very well, take supplements like vitamin d, zinc, and creatine daily, and I lift 5 times a week. So I’ve ruled out all lifestyle choices so far. It’s just very annoying. My past relationship this happened a fair amount, but never before was it a problem. I guess I felt pressured by her after not getting it up once or twice. So maybe that’s the root cause? But I don’t see that as detrimental you know? But even when I’m flirting with these girls or talking, I have zero drive to pursue anything sexual. Like I do, but at the same time I don’t. I just wanna have that normal attraction and drive I used to have. I’ve cut porn usage down to maybe once a week. Any advice helps seriously. I’ve looked deep into this topic and still can’t fix this. Also it does work 100% like I will wake up with morning wood a few times per week, and get easily get off alone. submitted by /u/Sure_Insurance_1473
Originally posted by u/Sure_Insurance_1473 on r/AskMen