Guys, I need your help! In short, about ten years ago, I had a huge crush on a musician I regularly went to see in concert. We’d exchange a few glances, but that was it. I was incredibly attracted to him, but we never really connected. He intimidated me too much to make the first move. Then we lost touch. A while ago, we reconnected on social media and followed each other. We’ve been talking regularly for a few days now, and we’re planning to meet up in a month (we don’t live in the same city anymore). He’s the one who suggested we meet. I have the feeling he’s flirting via text, but everything is always implied. For example, since I’m a model, I posted a photo in my story the day before yesterday, and he reacted with a blueberry emoji. We exchange several messages a day, but the guy is super intellectual and you always have to interpret everything. For example. When I told him the date was okay, he said, “We have a month to prepare ourselves psychologically. Every minute counts. It’s going to be epic.” Or again, when I complimented him on a video of him playing the piano (he’s a real virtuoso) and told him I’d started playing too, but I was nowhere near his level, he said, “That’s because you don’t have the right teacher,” implying that he might be. He also made it clear that he remembered me very well, even some very specific things, but that he would only open the files in a presidential election. That’s actually when he suggested we meet up. What do you think, is he flirting or not at all? I doubt it! But at the same time, we barely know each other, we’re not friends, and I figure if he’s asking to see me, there must be some mutual attraction, right? I know, it sounds silly and naive, but I really doubt it. Probably because I had an incredible crush on him back then, and it’s kind of crazy to think things could actually happen now. submitted by /u/LF6868
Originally posted by u/LF6868 on r/AskMen
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