My husband and I have a healthy sex life. We are happy and have very little stress. My husband just turned 42 last month. The last several times we’ve had sex, he’s had zero problems getting hard but went soft during sex. A few times before that, I noticed it didn’t feel as deep. I suspect because he wasn’t as hard as normal. He’s extremely embarrassed about it and upset. Even though it’s easy to think “it’s me,” I’ve made it a point to tell him that I understand it has nothing to do with me—because I’ve heard it can turn psychological once these things gets into your head. I feel like we are pretty healthy. He does not smoke. He barely drinks. And he’s not overweight . I’m sure he could lose 10 or 15 pounds but nothing that would be concerning or cause health problems. Is there an age when this tends to happen? Or have you found anything that has helped if you’ve dealt with it? submitted by /u/Bammer1819
Originally posted by u/Bammer1819 on r/AskMen
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