I’m a girl, and I am crushing on someone who is younger than me. I don’t know that person yet; it’s only been a month because we are in the same class. We just had small talks, exchanged glances, and smiled awkwardly at each other a few times, but he is so beautiful and I am interested in him. I am already 30, so I feel silly for feeling like a teenager. I don’t want to make him uncomfortable by confessing or asking to getting to know him more in text, but I need to let this out so bad. Usually, when I let something out, my interest dies down, whether it’s reciprocated or not. Only once in my life things get more intense, because it was reciprocated and I genuinely enjoy talking to a person. So I think if I say something, my nervous system can relax a bit. I’m posting here because it’s been a while since the last time I felt something, especially something like this. The pent up frustration makes me want to scream and just straight up ask him if he’s interested in having sex with me. But I don’t want to creep him out or make hm uncomfortable! I’m autistic and I can be a bit intense! I don’t assume he likes me back. People’s opinion about me is usually that I’m pretty and cute, or pretty cute, or cool (assuming they’re not lying), but I’m aware I’m out of shape, so I don’t assume I’m automatically attractive to anyone. And of course I don’t want things to be awkward afterwards. I don’t want other classmates or his girl friends to gossip about me if I tell him what I feel (he has a very close girl friend), but I don’t know how safe it is to tell him or how to know if he can keep this information to himself. What would you do if you were my crush? What would you suggest I do? submitted by /u/Divine_DarkMatter
Originally posted by u/Divine_DarkMatter on r/AskMen
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