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My ex (31m) and I (27F) have been in no contact for about a month. The breakup wasn’t messy or dramatic. We didn’t fight. It was actually sudden. We both loved each other very much, which makes it harder to understand. Two days after we broke up, he called me. I missed it and didn’t return the call because I assumed it might have been accidental. Since then, it’s been complete silence. There are times I really want to reach out. I miss him. But I’m also afraid that he’s moved on, or that reaching out would push him further away. From a man’s perspective, what usually goes through your mind during no contact? Do you miss your ex but stay silent? Do you interpret her silence as moving on? If you loved her, would you still be thinking about her after a month? submitted by /u/Honeyyyyybeee

Originally posted by u/Honeyyyyybeee on r/AskMen