Hi girls so I suspect my boyfriend of cheating. The supposed girl rang him when I was with him. I said “who’s that” he said “my friends cousin”, I said “what does she want” he said “probably to ask me to go out” (he said all of his friends were out) I said answer it then and he said on the phone I can’t I’m at my name’s. Then he said am I ok to go out, went out for a few hours then came home. A few weeks later he started acting different so I ended up doing a deep dive on his Facebook and found the girl with the same name loved his pfp on Facebook and he loved hers but they were both from August last year. They’re not friends on Facebook currently but follow eachother on instagram. I then tried to find out if there was a girl with that name who was related to any of his friends. I couldn’t find a SINGLE girl with that name who had mutual friends, or friends of a friend or literally any evidence there was a girl of that name related to any of his friends. So then I decided to go on her profile and go on the search profile bit and I searched his name on her Facebook profile. When I did that and ‘in a relationship’ post came up. He weren’t tagged and he also didn’t like it but there were people who she weren’t friends with and who I had 1 mutual friend with (which was him) who had liked it. This post was from November 2023(I’m assuming they were together for around 9 months). So what I am wondering is if this is evidence of them being together or if not why would this show up on her profile when I type his name in. Also I’m going to question who this girl is and why I can’t find anyone anywhere with that name who is related to any of his friends. How do I even approach this without looking like a complete psycho, I was just trying to put my mind to rest and it got worse when I couldn’t find anything. Surely there would be something somewhere to prove that, either a happy birthday from the girls mum to the “friends” dad or whatever something along those lines. PLEASEEE can someone give me some advice on this 😂 submitted by /u/ProfessionalNo1336
Originally posted by u/ProfessionalNo1336 on r/AskGirls