Original Reddit post

I don’t mean this in a combative sense. I understand that’s not good for the marriage. But in my trying to understand my own marriage dynamic, I got to wondering. I’m not even sure there is an answer. For context, I’m with an extremely hard-headed wife. When I am the source of disruption to the contentment of the family unit, she’s all over me about it. When she’s the source source of an issue, somehow it’s still my fault. This dynamic frustrates me, and I have to be extremely patient while nothing changes. I don’t know that there is a solution to that problem. I married who I married. But it got me thinking, if there was a way to get some leverage, what would it be? submitted by /u/cik3nn3th

Originally posted by u/cik3nn3th on r/AskMen