I’ve hit a wall. After having a few short-term situationships that required almost zero effort, my desire for a long-term relationship has completely evaporated. Also after those short relationships that I see woman can open themselves easily I dont want to put so much effort to regular woman that want to flirt but not directly sex. The whole “talking stage,” the endless Instagram DMs, the financial investment, and the emotional energy required for modern dating just feels like a bad deal now. Why would I spend months building something when I know I can get it with less effort? I still want longterm but also shortterm women in my life, but I’ve lost all patience “chase” and the games for regular woman. I want to skip the fluff and get straight to the point, but it feels like the dating scene is designed to be as tedious as possible. Has anyone else transitioned from “low-effort success” to complete “dating burnout”? How do you handle the lack of motivation to even try for something more serious? submitted by /u/EveningBeginning3922
Originally posted by u/EveningBeginning3922 on r/AskMen