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Serious question. I’m 29f and I love men who are muscular and in shape. I’m also in great shape and am an attractive woman. I see so many hot guys at the gym who have amazing muscles, but idk what to do. I hate going up to men because I’m afraid it makes me look desperate since it’s more expected for men to approach. One time I went up to a cute guy at the gym, just to be brave, and I said “hi I think you’re cute”. And he replied “why?”. And I said “…I don’t know” and walked away. Besides the gym, where else should I look? I’m planning on becoming a certified trainer, so maybe at work. I hate dating apps, but maybe I’ll try again. I’m in a couple run clubs too. But I would like to easily find my type at the gym. What are things I should do or say? submitted by /u/No_Atmosphere_8987

Originally posted by u/No_Atmosphere_8987 on r/AskMen