Original Reddit post

Hmmm, first lets go play some pool at a bar, then we can grab something to eat. Lets go visit this new coffee shop and then we can go for a walk Wanna grab something to eat first then go to this karaoke place Lets go to this restaurant. (Sushi, pizza, steakhouse, whatever) Mix and match. That easy. So why did not a single woman i was dating do this for me? Its obviously not rocket science. I dont understand. I mean there are some things about reservations or finding the right parking, but thats it. So: A) where the hell do you keep finding the men that dont even wanna do this B) why is it so blown up out of proportion like its sooo much emotional labor to call a number and ask for reservations or some other info C) why is it never reciprocated? Again, as shown from my first few examples, it isnt back breaking work. So why is it portrayed in media like the pinnacle or cornerstone of masculine energy or whatever the current buzzword is? submitted by /u/Otherwise-Sky7266

Originally posted by u/Otherwise-Sky7266 on r/AskMen